I’ve been writing ever since I first learned to form letters on a page. I went “pro” some 30-plus years ago and have learned much about my craft and self in the process. I know, for example, that I must have certain things in my life if I am to succeed in 2018. Here goes! A reason to write I write because I have to, because the urge is almost physical in nature. I see […]
To write a book, we must enter unknown territory. Having supporters to cheer us on makes our travels less frightening. Ideally, these folks will lend us their ears and hearts; offer suggestions and a shoulder to cry on; build us up, not tear us down. They will journey with us and benefit from our efforts, directly or indirectly. It doesn’t always happen that way, of course. We may well have to ask, prod and teach […]
Neurons are the building blocks of our nervous system. We have 100 billion of them and their job is to transmit information. New information, new pathways. New pathways, increased ability to learn, adapt and remember. Scientists once believed this building process occurred only in infancy. They now know it occurs at all stages of life. The most important stage? From my perspective: now.
Why do we have trouble finding time but no problem wasting it? —Beth Mende Conny The day my aunt graduated from college, with honors no less, was one of the high-points of her life. It had taken her 20 years — 20 years! I cannot fathom how she kept at it, how anyone could. What’s more amazing still is that she did it while raising two children and working part-time and full-time on occasions when […]
We are all pilots — autopilots. We fly, as we live, according to our habits. Some habits are good. They are the shorthand of our everyday lives. Without them, we would waste lots of time and would most certainly get to work late. Can you imagine if you woke up and first had to figure out what to do and how to do it? Take shaving, for example. Unless you are a novice, you do […]
My husband and I are making a cake. Open before us is the bible for lost souls: the Joy of Cooking. Across the countertop are the requisite ingredients (flour, sugar, baking soda and powder, eggs and salt) and various implements of destruction (measuring cups and spoons). The Joy (ha!) of Cooking makes clear the precise measurements and order of ingredients. It states, “Deviation brings disaster.”
How do you choose your pens? What are your favorite pens? In this video, I talk about choosing pens and how to go about it!
I turn to Mason Currey’s Daily Rituals: How artists work when I need inspiration and a reminder that while the writing process isn’t easy, writing regularly makes it easier. Rituals, like weight-lifting, build muscle, and we writers need strength to finish our projects. Ernest Hemingway’s ritual was to begin writing at dawn, when no one would disturb him. He would read what he had previously written and wouldn’t stop until he knew what would happen next. According […]
When you submit a query to an editor, the editor will respond in one of three ways: yes, no, maybe. The editor says “yes” for these four reasons: Your idea your article appeals to her publication’s audience. That publication could be an off- or online magazine, newspaper or newsletter, among others. Your idea is solid. It has depth, scope and significance. Your writing is stellar. It’s engaging and succinct and, as should go without saying, […]
As a book coach, I estimate that half of my writers want to write a memoir. They may not call it that per se. It could, indeed, be more of a self-help, travel or genre book, or, simply, a collection of reflections. Such books are considered nonfiction, because they are based on facts and personal experiences. Theoretically. As a memoirist, it’s your right to choose what to include or exclude from your book — within […]